Many women suffer with failure to orgasm. According to Relate, around one in four women will have problems reaching an orgasm at some stage during their life, while 25-35% may have never experienced an orgasm. Consistent failure to achieve orgasm after normal and adequate sexual stimulation may be troubling for some women and their partners. You may feel that you are a failure or inadequate in some way. The stress may build with wanting to achieve an orgasm the next time you have sex; and this in turn may lead to a lack of orgasm, and so the cycle can repeat itself.
Both vaginismus and failure to orgasm tend to be psychological in nature, caused by psychological conflicts or very emotional experiences from the past. Therapy with Nigel will allow you to resolve and process these experiences in a safe environment addressing the root cause and helping to resolve it.
In addition, learning about your thinking habits The Thrive Programme will allow you to understand why you are reacting in this way and providing you with suitable techniques which will empower you to feel in control and preventing the problems from occurring again.